Take a few minutes to read the Bible verses listed and ask the Holy Spirit to lead you in how this verse applies to you this week.
1 A man by the name of Lazarus was sick in the village of Bethany. He had two sisters, Mary and Martha. This was the same Mary who later poured perfume on the Lord's head and wiped his feet with her hair. 2 3 The sisters sent a message to the Lord and told him that his good friend Lazarus was sick. 4 When Jesus heard this, he said, “His sickness won't end in death. It will bring glory to God and his Son.” 5 Jesus loved Martha and her sister and brother. 6 But he stayed where he was for two more days. 7 Then he said to his disciples, “Now we will go back to Judea.” 8 “Teacher,” they said, “the people there want to stone you to death! Why do you want to go back?” 9 Jesus answered, “Aren't there twelve hours in each day? If you walk during the day, you will have light from the sun, and you won't stumble. 10 But if you walk during the night, you will stumble, because you don't have any light.” 11 Then he told them, “Our friend Lazarus is asleep, and I am going there to wake him up.” 12 They replied, “Lord, if he is asleep, he will get better.” 13 Jesus really meant that Lazarus was dead, but they thought he was talking only about sleep. 14 Then Jesus told them plainly, “Lazarus is dead! 15 I am glad I wasn't there, because now you will have a chance to put your faith in me. Let's go to him.” 16 Thomas, whose nickname was “Twin,” said to the other disciples, “Come on. Let's go, so we can die with him.” 17 When Jesus got to Bethany, he found that Lazarus had already been in the tomb four days. 18 Bethany was less than three kilometers from Jerusalem, 19 and many people had come from the city to comfort Martha and Mary because their brother had died. 20 When Martha heard that Jesus had arrived, she went out to meet him, but Mary stayed in the house. 21 Martha said to Jesus, “Lord, if you had been here, my brother would not have died. 22 Yet even now I know that God will do anything you ask.” 23 Jesus told her, “Your brother will live again!” 24 Martha answered, “I know he will be raised to life on the last day, when all the dead are raised.” 25 Jesus then said, “I am the one who raises the dead to life! Everyone who has faith in me will live, even if they die. 26 And everyone who lives because of faith in me will never really die. Do you believe this?” 27 “Yes, Lord!” she replied. “I believe you are the Christ, the Son of God. You are the one we hoped would come into the world.” 28 After Martha said this, she went and privately said to her sister Mary, “The Teacher is here, and he wants to see you.” 29 As soon as Mary heard this, she got up and went out to Jesus. 30 He was still outside the village where Martha had gone to meet him. 31 Many people had come to comfort Mary, and when they saw her quickly leave the house, they thought she was going out to the tomb to cry. So they followed her. 32 Mary went to where Jesus was. Then as soon as she saw him, she knelt at his feet and said, “Lord, if you had been here, my brother would not have died.” 33 When Jesus saw that Mary and the people with her were crying, he was terribly upset 34 and asked, “Where have you put his body?” They replied, “Lord, come and you will see.” 35 Jesus started crying, 36 and the people said, “See how much he loved Lazarus.” 37 Some of them said, “He gives sight to the blind. Why couldn't he have kept Lazarus from dying?” 38 Jesus was still terribly upset. So he went to the tomb, which was a cave with a stone rolled against the entrance. 39 Then he told the people to roll the stone away. But Martha said, “Lord, you know that Lazarus has been dead four days, and there will be a bad smell.” 40 Jesus replied, “Didn't I tell you that if you had faith, you would see the glory of God?” 41 After the stone had been rolled aside, Jesus looked up toward heaven and prayed, “Father, I thank you for answering my prayer. 42 I know that you always answer my prayers. But I said this, so the people here would believe you sent me.” 43 When Jesus had finished praying, he shouted, “Lazarus, come out!”
John 11:1-43
Mark 12:31b
31 The second most important commandment says: ‘Love others as much as you love yourself.’ No other commandment is more important than these.”
Think of all the feelings you feel in a day. You might feel happy when your mom makes your favorite breakfast. You might feel frustrated when you’re struggling to solve a tricky math problem. You might feel nervous to sing in a choir concert. Have you ever stopped to think about what others may be feeling? When we empathize, we learn to understand and enter into the feelings of others. Empathy can help us love our neighbors in the way that Jesus wants us to.
Jesus knew three siblings named Lazarus, Mary, and Martha. They were friends of Jesus and loved God. Lazarus had been very sick, and he died. Mary went to Jesus, and she kneeled down at his feet. She was very upset. After all, Jesus had healed so many people in the past. Why didn’t he come to heal her brother before it was too late? She told Jesus, “If you had been here, my brother would not have died.” Jesus saw Mary crying, and he cried. In fact, he was so incredibly sad, he wept. But he knew that God would be glorified when he raised Lazarus from the dead, and he did just that.
Jesus’ healing of Lazarus was a miracle, but this story is also amazing because it shows us how Jesus’ emotions were just as human as ours. Jesus saw that Martha and Mary were sad, and he felt deep sadness with them. He understood their hearts and their needs. Through crying with his friends and sharing in their sadness, Jesus set an example for us by showing empathy towards others. And by entering into the feelings of our friends, listening to them, and caring for them, we can follow Jesus and show his love.